NOTE: We created this contract from other D/s couples we investigated online, borrowing from several sources, but mainly from Master49's "Taming of L" blog. Thank you to those who contributed.
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This contract is provided as a secure and binding agreement which defines in specific terms the relationship and interaction between two individuals, hereafter termed the submissive and the Dominant. This agreement
is binding only between the two people listed above. This agreement must be entered voluntarily with both parties agreeing to the conditions.
This agreement is intended to guide the two individuals on their lifelong journey together, and while the primary intention is to please and service the Dominant, it is also intended to protect the submissive; to shape her into a better, happier, and stronger woman; and to help the couple grow together spiritually, lovingly, mentally, and physically.
Section I: The Dominant’s role
- The Dominant agrees to care for the submissive to the greatest extent that he can to include tending to the physical safety, financial security, and emotional/mental well-being of the submissive.
- The Dominant also accepts the commitment to treat the submissive properly, to train and discipline the submissive in a consistent manner, to punish the submissive in accordance with her infractions, to love the submissive, and to use the submissive as He sees fit.
- The Dominant accepts the responsibility to use His power to mold and shape the submissive, assist the submissive to grow in strength, character, confidence and being, and to help her become a better woman in all areas of her life.
- The Dominant will not ever purposefully ignore the submissive.
- It shall be the Dominant’s duty, with applicable assistance from the submissive, to watch for and prevent any mental or emotional trauma which may stem from the condition of servitude, activities within the condition of service, or any other variable that is based within the confines of this contract.
- The Dominant will never ask the submissive to put Him before her children or her career just to satisfy His own pleasure.
- The Dominant will be faithful and monogamous to the submissive, and will be honest and loyal to her at all times.
- The Dominant will always be open to the submissive’s concerns and thoughts, worries and stresses, and will encourage her to always open up and express her feelings and concerns to Him without fear of punishment.
- The Dominant will pay for all sex toys, bondage devices, lingerie, play-wear or any other item relating to their D/s lifestyle, within reason.
Section II: The submissive’s role
- The primary purpose of the submissive is to serve, obey, and please the Dominant, in any manner seen fit by the Dominant.
- The submissive will put her entire trust into the Dominant with the knowledge that He will never betray that trust.
- The submissive agrees to follow the direction and commands from the Dominant as it pertains to her daily life, to include, but not limited to: His Rules.
- The submissive will always respond to the sexual needs of the Dominant at any time in any manner that he sees fit, unless responding to His needs violates any other aspect of this contract.
- The submissive will be faithful and monogamous to the Dominant and the Dominant alone, and will not conduct herself in a manner with other men that may indicate to them that she is available or flirtatious, or make the Dominant feel that she is being flirtatious.
- The submissive will do all she can to maintain the balance between her family/work self and her true self as the submissive to her Dominant. It is her responsibility to do everything within her power to maintain this balance and not expect the Dominant to be the driving force as it is not her place to expect this much of Him.
- The submissive will at all times act in a manner that is respectful of the Dominant, to include manners of speech, promptness, proper answers, obedience, loyalty, and honesty.
- The submissive will respond promptly to all communications from the Dominant, and must never make the Dominant feel ignored by her.
- The submissive will remind the Dominant on a regular basis, either verbally or through written communication, that it is her pleasure to serve him and she is thankful for him having her.
- The submissive agrees to assume The Position whenever requested by the Dominant, with the understanding that The Position involves her lying on her back, with legs spread and knees high, so the Dominant may examine her flower and determine how he wishes to penetrate her.
- When dining out, the submissive will let the Dominant order what she is going to eat and drink, with input from her on what she may have. In all dining situations, she is not allowed to begin eating until the Dominant gives her permission to do so.
Section III: Punishments
The submissive and the Dominant agree that consistent and appropriate punishments are necessary for the growth of the submissive. The following are a list of punishments the Dominant can use on the submissive with the understanding that the list can be altered or added to at any time depending on the effectiveness of the punishment. Punishments are dependent upon the severity of the infraction and may include:
- Denial of sexual contact with the Dominant for a period of time.
- Denial of orgasm while engaged in sexual activity with the Dominant.
- Denial of masturbation.
- Writing assignments.
- Time outs/forced to sit in a corner for an extended period of time, to include possible wearing of a ball gag.
- Being tied to the Dominant’s bed blindfolded and left alone for a period of time.
- Denial of privileges to include television and social interaction with friends.
- Detailed confession of past life experiences the submissive is ashamed of.
- Washing mouth out with soap.
- Wearing of uncomfortable items of clothing while at work or at home to include items that may be inserted in her vagina or ass.
- Spanking or flogging with a riding-crop or other device.
Section IV: Alteration of contract
This contract may not be altered, except when both Dominant and submissive agree. If the contract is altered, the new contract shall be printed and signed, and then the old contract must be destroyed. The Dominant and submissive will review the contact on a quarterly basis.
Section V: Termination of Contract
Under certain circumstances, events, and conditions, termination of this contract may be wanted, warranted, and executed, but must be an absolute last option by both parties when no other recourse is possible.
Section VI: submissive’s signature
I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to give myself completely to my Master, and further accept His claim of ownership over my physical body, heart, and mind. I understand that I will be commanded, trained and punished as a submissive, and I promise to be true and to fulfill the pleasures and desires of my Master to the best of my abilities.
Signature____________________________________________ Date_____________
Section VII: Dominant’s signature
I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to accept this submissive as my property, body and possessions, and to care for her to the best of my ability. I shall command her, train her, love her, and punish her as a submissive. I understand the responsibility implicit in this arrangement, and agree that no harm shall come to the submissive as long as she is mine.
Signature____________________________________________ Date_____________
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